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[Shanon]

Hi Everyone!

I'm new here this is my first post...I'm looking to meet new online pen pal's perferably over 20yrs of age.
I'll be 28 on Sept,2 woo hoo!!! :D
I'm a Mom of 2 Boy's 4and10 and a StepMom to 2 Girl's 10and12 I stay at home full time and have a Boyfriend of 3 1/2 yrs.
I hope I hear fr some of u's soon but until then take care. *Shanon* :)

[Blackwidow]

Happy Birthday! :) I hope you have a great day filled with fun and love,and wonderful memories that will last for you and your family for ever! GOD bless now and forever.

[Shanon]

Awwww ty sooooooooo much.

[Blackwidow]

:cool: Hows it going? So how was your birthday? I hope it was totally awesome! :D So what kinda music you like? I like rock, alternative rock and heavy metal-from Drowning Pool,Three Days Grace,Chevelle to Nickelback to AcDc,Def Leppard and the list continues.With the kids I dont watch alot of tv.Ya dont have to watch the radio-kids can be very active-especially if your into a show or on the phone.So I enjoy my music-in my spare time- HA-HA-I draw cartoons and muscle cars.Im a artist-my favs. to draw are the toons.There alot of fun.Do you shoot pool?Bowl? Ok its your turn-catch soon. :cool:

[Shanon]

Hey There

I had a great Bday thank's...

I like all Music, But I can't stand Country!!! I like everything fr NickleBack to Rob Zombie lol I love T.V i'm kinda hooked on those T.V Reality Show's for some reason...lol...

I love Pool but I don't get out much to play it due to the 4 Kid's they kinda keep u busy, i'm sure u know what i'm saying since u have 5 Kid's they keep u young... Anyway's I looked at ur post and u wanna communicate with 30-50yr old's I should warn u i'm ONLY 28 lol 2 yr's off... :)

I'm a stay at home Mom for now I love Sport's/Shopping/Movie's/The Outdoor's etc...

Are u married??? Where r ya fr??? Tell me "MORE" :confused:

I'm fr Alberta Canada, i'm Divorced with 2 boy's, I have a Boyfriend of 3 1/2 yrs and his 2 daughter's we have Custudy of so that make's 4 Kid's total.

That's all for now talk to u soon... :D

*Shanon* :)

[Blackwidow]

Hi, Dont worry about the age thing-I hang out with a variety of ages-wasnt sure if this was a kids site-so I wanted to be upfront about my age(wouldnt want anyone to think Im stalkin kids)So I figured 30-50 was safe.But my friends range in age from 23-76.I totally hate country,to. :p I wasnt sure if you liked it so I didnt say it.Cool.I went to the Nickelback,Three doors down,Puddle of Mudd concert in July here.It was blow your face out cool :D And Thornley opened for them-i love Thornley.It was so fun!!!My 21 yr. old daughter and I went she got us tickets for my mothers day gift.Cool huh? Do you watch the "Assistant" ?With andy dick-hes totally wierd.But that one I watched and the first "king of the Jungle".Not the one on now-dont care for it.I kinda thought the first one was rigged-it pissed me off. But I will watch like "monk,or animal planet,monster garage or house" if I get a chance.Later in evenin stuff,when its more quite. Once in awhile my husband will watch the kids so Ill go over to "ball n cue" and play,usually with one of my daughters.I went and got a small table for our basement.But its still nice to get out of the house. Yeah Im a stay at home kinda mom-funny cuz were never home-lol-I have a special son.So I m needed at home to care for him.Not the kind of handicap ya can see his cerbal palseys mild-OT and PT have made him totally funtional.Ya cant tell except by his writin or cant keep up with competitive sports. Its alittle easier for me with some of the kids grown and out of the house. A 16 yr,13 yr,9 yr old in the house all boys.Girls are much harder cuz of hormones to raise-puberty- :eek: lol.But now that the girls are older we hang out and have alot of fun.But for awhile I didnt know if Id survive. lol.Boys are definately easier! Ok, tag your it.Catch ya soon.

[Shanon]

HIYA

Sorry I haven't gotten back to u sooner i've been busy busy busy lol...

Ya it's tough to know who's who in the internet World who's really over 18 or who's just putting on a front...

You sound like u have alot of paitent's as a Mother and I repsect u for that.I have my Day's where my Kid's get on my nerve's more bad then good lol but hey that's what u get when they hit 10 and 12 right??? I have more problem's in dealing with my 2 Step-Daughter's then I do my 2 Boy's must be a Girl thing.

How long have u been married for?
Do u chat much online?
What else can I ask :confused: geeez I dunno

Well i'll leave it at that for now and I hope to hear fr u soon.

U take care and catch ya later *Shanon* :o

[Blackwidow]

Hows it going? Ive been with my man for 10yrs.-married for 9yrs.Ive known him for like 30 yrs. No actually I dont chat much online.I used to just surf around then I heard about this site.Most of what they call friend sites are really dateing sites.Im not lookin for a date or secret affair. :eek: I had figured there wasnt any real friend-penpal sites.So when I found this one I thought Id give it a try. But for the most part it looks like Im probably one of the oldest members-so I really didnt think I would find anyone to talk to. With my kids bein older-I have alot of my freedom back.As far as they can do alot for themselves.Ya know-no more diapers :D And more experience-cuz I have a good idea of whats comin at me with the ones who are still growin up. Youll see it really gets easier! So what kinda stores do you like to shop at? I like going down to the mall.Walkin around-I try to get in at least 2 laps-cuz that gives me 4 miles under my belt.But I dont like dress like Im there exercisin-Just like I always do.Casual-tee and jeans and boots.The boots give some extra weight to my feet-so I get more of a work out that way. Well its back to you. Catch ya later. :cool:

[Shanon]

Good Morning!!!

Ya I also don't chat alot I have a few Friend's on here that I keep in touch with but other then that i'm not on alot.

Ohhh I hope it get's easier :)

I LOVE to shop!!! When I have the money to blow lol but I love to go to West Edmonton Mall it's the LARGEST Mall in Canada it's Awsome!!! :cool:
I like to shop at Stiches and Bootleggar Store's like that i'm quite Tiny so it's hard for me to find clothe's that acually fit i'm 5'1....95 pound's so it's tough.

WOW U and ur Hubby have known eachother forever...Tell me is it true that the happiness goes after a certain amount of time married to one another???
That's my worst fear about marriage is that it will all fade away someday. I give Men and Woman ALOT of credit that can keep it going for sooo long and still be in love with eachother take's alot on both part's if u ask me.

Well I better run for abit but I hope to hear fr u very soon. Take Care *Shanon* :p

[animal freak]

yes love does die after sooo long...hello i am matt!it is very nice to say hi to yah!i would say watch out for puburty.girls are the worst but guys arent easy ither lol.being one myself.there alot of thorns to go through being married exspecialy to some one younger then you!it is a pain i have seen to may marriges and i dont know if i want to now or not lol.way to much argueing and hurt feelings to deal with for me!
happy chatiing!

ps.hey mom*

[Blackwidow]

Hey,whats up? Finishin up on the topic of puberty and raisin girls.Why theyre so hard is they are more emotional (usually vocally)-some are whiners,some like to scream and yell and theres the occasional fit thrower (like throwing objects). :eek: And I havent met a girl yet who isnt in a hurry to grow up-only to wish when they are grown up to be able to be taken care of again.lol.For me the worst was tryin to get my girls to slow down-The worlds expectation of girls is hurry and wear make-up,date,wear inappropriate clothes,etc..! The role models,our movie stars,in music,magazines basically every where are not what we want our girls to try and protray at 11 and 12.And even more dangerous at 15 and 16 yrs. old.But the pressure is on from school ...friends and the media to be cool-another words be a adult in a little girls brain.So it totally sucks cuz we get to be the bad guys and try to keep them safe as well as let them be cool (within limits).Which usually is never enough for them! :confused: So if your lucky enough you might get to hear the screams of "I hate you" and "so and so's mom lets her." lol. If I had a dime for every time I heard that one.lol. My fav. come back for I hate you is.."I love you,to"..Cuz they expect you to get all upset by it and they really dont mean I hate you.Theyre just unhappy cuz theyre not gettin theyre way.So they try to push the buttons that will make them win. Like hurtin your feelins or even sucking up only to turn when you dont give in.It doesnt paint a pretty picture but in reality its normal and your not alone.There has been many moms before you and there will be many after you.My husband used to tell me hang in and just love them threw it (I used to think who did he think he was-what did he know about little girls)That they would grow out of it and we'd be great friends.He was right :p ..at 18.. I finally seen changes and now...We go to concerts together-we listen to the same music and laugh our ...off. And best of all there is a GOD you will survive..threw gritted teeth ...lol..but it will work out and all will be happy once again in the land of family.ROTF LMAO But for real ..I love all my kids-threw the good, the bad, and the ugly.See my parents died when I was young so I was totally unprepared for what was comin my way.I didnt have a clue!!!!I never expected anything to go wrong or against my up bringing of my kids...what a fool...See now I expect anything..roll with what ever comes my way and know in my heart it's not forever!!! lmao..I can laugh now..but I couldnt then..ANY WAYS.. like they say "knowing is half the battle"
I like to shop at Hot Topics and the T-Shirt Place,Claires and Icing for my jewlery.Hot Topics has hilarious sayins t-shirts and really cool jewlery.And Ive met some really cool people that work there.They're real and dont put on a front-some people might be afraid or intimadated by them.But Im glad I met them!!
Well I just realized how long this was...sorry...I hope ya dont mind!!!
Catch ya on the flip side. :cool:

[Blackwidow]

Sorry..to answer your question about love...Ive been married before now and Ive learned some things..like if you both remember to treat each other like you treat your best friends youll be fine-threw anything...husbands and wives both are usually guilty of not doing this. :confused:
If we talked to our best friends like we talk to our spouse would they still be our friend? :eek:
As time goes on we tend to accuse instead of ask...we tend to walk away instead of listen...we tend to vent instead of calming down...or yell instead of talkin..If you really treasure your relationship..then youll be able to keep it safe from built up resentment that those other things bring! But you both have to play by the same rules.
Yes your love changes over time..but it doesnt have to be for the worse..but it does take 2 people to make a marriage work...be kind to one another..always think the best of your spouse in a situation..(giving them the benifit of the doubt)and dont forget to forgive-we are all human..he's gonna leave the toilet seat up..dirty clothes on the floor..etc..youll know if you treat your man like a best friend and he doesnt you-then let him go-cuz marriage will only make it worse!!!Marriage doesnt fix anything-but can break alot of hearts-and the he'll change for me is a bunch of crap.Tigers dont lose they're stripes-if ya love him for who he is-then dont try to change him later-another common big mistake.
I think that you'll know when its right.And you'll make the right choice for you.. :)
Being careful about marriage is good-cuz its supposed to be forever.
We live in a disposable society-instant everything-just add water-lol-but marriage needs love,patience,kindness,compassion and forgiveness-nothin instant about that. ;) Its like we know this stuff in our hearts but living it is a different story.But thats the key-its not hard if you love the person-yup-even when your sick and tired.
So I hope I didnt bore the stuffin out of you.lol.
Smile!!Catch ya later.

[huneybear]

:) hi how are u, hope u are fine, saw your profile and would like to be friends, if interested, pls write, would love to hear from u,, bye and take care for now.